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My mentor helped me build and develop the skills and confidence to master that role because we built and strengthened our relationship over time.
Fast forward 8 years and I finally felt in a place ready to give back to the community that has given so much to me, I signed up to be a mentor. I was enthusiastic about the opportunity to share and impart my wisdom and learned experiences with someone else. It felt important to me, but unfortunately, my first formal foray into mentorship was not what I expected. My protege lacked drive and initiative, they were disengaged and failed to prioritize the relationship, and there were times there was no communication at all.
Being in a successful and gratifying mentorship relationship is something that takes dedication. It does not occur by happenstance, rather commitment from both parties. The output is only ever as good as the input, before we commit to a mentorship relationship, whether as a protege or mentor, it is imperative that we set a foundation. In the same way we have expectations of our colleagues or bosses in the workplace, we need to have transparency to understand what each party hopes to obtain out of the relationship, what is their goal.
So how do we create and build strong mentoring relationships?
While my first time as a mentor may not have gone as planned, I’m still eager to get back out there and share my expertise with otherwise. One negative experience, shouldn’t keep others from benefiting from the CPHR Mentorship program.
Have a mentorship story you’d like to share? Interested in participating and learning more about the CPHR Mentorship?
Please reach out to Lynda Bergeron at
lbergeron@cphrab.ca
The views and opinions expressed in this blog post belong solely to the original author(s) and do not necessarily represent the views and opinions of CPHR Alberta.
The views and opinions expressed in this blog post belong solely to the original author(s) and do not necessarily represent the views and opinions of CPHR Alberta.
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